Something I wish I had learnt earlier on in my blogging journey is how much I needed blogging friends. I think alot of us when we first start out blogging just do whatever. Which is expected, because when you go into something blindly you don’t really know the right or wrongs. I don’t know about you, but I did zero research before starting my blog. I just found WordPress, entered my details and created my site. Without actually thinking about the stuff I needed to do, in order to achieve my goals.
Making friends was the last thing on my mind when I started my blog, but really it should have been. One of the biggest blessings from blogging has been the connections I have been lucky enough to make with people. People who I would never have had the chance to meet in real life. Blogging not only helps you in your life, but it gives you the opportunities to reach and help so many other people around the world.
In today’s post I want to share a few reasons with you of why I think blogging friends are important and why we need them!
THEY WILL BECOME YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM
Believe it or not, you’ll need a support system whilst blogging. It sounds a bit weird if you’re an outsider looking in doesn’t it? Why would bloggers possibly need a support system? Well let me tell you, blogging is no walk in the park. There have been countless times I’ve wanted to give up and never blog again but my blogging friends have been there to pick me back up again. Blogging is fun, and it is the best thing ever. But its also so very time consuming and it can really take a toll on your mental health at times too. You need blogging friends to help lift you up and also give you advice when you need it the most.
I’ve had so many heart to hearts about blogging with my friends that I have lost count. Sometimes you just need to vent. And the people who know you and are around you wont necessarily know what you’re going through. Its always a good idea to talk to someone who can relate to your experiences. And blogging friends can, because they are your team mates.
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THEY GIVE THE BEST BLOGGING ADVICE
Who better to ask for advice about blogging than a blogger? It makes perfect sense to me! There have been so many times I’ve been stuck with something and one of my blogging friends has been able to help me. Twitter is a great space for this as there are several popular hashtags you can use to get answers to any of your blogging related questions. Whether you are stuck on content ideas, or you need help figuring out Adsense. They are there for you. And you are there for them too!
I’ve had nothing but a positive experience with other bloggers in the community. Even if you don’t know them yet, bloggers are just willing and ready to help you in any way that they can. Its so refreshing to see considering some social media platforms can be quite toxic.
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THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU
One great thing about making friends around the world is that when you need someone they will be there for you. So many times I’ve needed help or advice and they are there. I could even say here that I open up and tell some of my blogging friends more personal stuff than I do to people who actually know me. Which is crazy.
I have some blogging friends I speak with every single day without fail. My friend Shelly and I even went into business together for our 30 day blogging strategy. We had only known each-other maybe half a year or so. But thats what blogging does for us. It connects us to one another, and its such a lovely thing.
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Have you made any friends since you started blogging? Whats one of the best things about having blogging friends?
Olivia x
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“We need blogging friends
blogging friends on the same page
blogging friends on the same stages
with attaining goals in common.”” _-Van Prince
Loved this!
thanks
We are a family. You are my blogger mom.
Hahaha this made me laugh🤣
I am a blogger baby. You gave birth to me a month ago. I’m your blogger son.
Hahahaha so funny! You are my pride and joy!
Yes, I am so happy to have a blogger mom like you. You feed me with your amazing blog every day. I will be a strong blogger like my mom!!!
I haven’t made any proper blogging friends yet but hopefully soon I will! How would you recommend starting to make connections- do you reach out via comments or instagram, what would you suggest
Instagram for sure! I have made alot of my connections through social media!
I agree!!!! I have made many friends here even though we don’t talk every day but it’s a nice feeling knowing someone is there for me❤❤
Yes, me too 💛
I agree with you! I had no idea that I would make such good friends online. I’m really grateful to have them❤️
I want you to visit my blogging best friend Pavithra’s blog “Small Talks”, she’s really a wonderful blogger ✨ I’m sure you’d like it.
Please send me the link! I’d be happy to visit!
Sure!
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Lovely blog!
The blogger community is truly supportive, give advice, and really are there for one another. It’s truly awesome. 😀
It really, really is, I just love being a member here x
Sooo agree! They help so much and it’s great to have a support system for blogging ❤️
It really is, I don’t know what I’d do without the support from other bloggers ♥︎
Sending lots of 💖💖💖 your way!
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And they understand where as those who do not blog, can’t or won’t
You’re right!
Blogging friends keep me going! I love having someone to ask questions about blogging and site maintenance. I’m not a teckkie so it’s really helpful.
Ang | https://loseweightwithang.com
Yes me too! Its like having IT support, but for blogging instead!
I had never really thought about this when I began, but I’m actually looking forward to this! Thanks for your (always) encouraging post💕
Thank you for reading!♥︎
I totally agree that we need blogging friends. I was just putting some finishing touches on my 1-Year Blogaversary post and I briefly spoke about this same thing. You have become a great blogging friend, resource and motivation to me. You may or may not see that in the post. LOL! Thanks again for all that you do!
Aw yay! Im excited to read it!! 🙂
Gaining blogging friends like you was such an unexpected but wonderful surprise! I am so grateful for the support we share with each other 😊
I am so grateful too 💛
Unexpected indeed!
I’ve not yet hit a wall but that might well come in the future, I guess we’ll have to see. Downside for me is no-one I know actually blogs so everything so far is word of mouse!
Nobody I know blogs either! The connections I have made are all from people I have met through blogging! 🙂
I guess I will have to keep at it then and try and be as E-sociable as I can!
That is so true thank you for highlighing this. It feels like a lonely journey at times. I have been in this journey a short time and have nobody to vent to but I know I will eventually build up a support system xxx
Oh it for sure can feel so lonely at times, but less lonely when you make connections with like minded people! xx
This is so true, I have more support with my blog from my blogging friends than my “real” life time friends xxx
Yep me too!
I’ve only be blogging a very short time, but I’ve met some of the sweetest souls since being on here! I can’t believe how kind and helpful people are on here💗
For real! Its a breath of fresh air isn’t it? Compared to other social media platforms, I think that blogging is the least negative and toxic!
Oh absolutely! People are so positive and supportive🤗💗
Honestly I wish I knew this when I just started blogging 😂
My blogging life changed once I made blogging friends!
I consider them my inspirations. You are also my inspiration. I’ve learnt a lot from you. Sometimes, I really don’t get the time to read as you post due to college work but I’m always eager to know what Olivia has for me. And I’m growing with it. Thanks
I love this post, it’s so true! When I started blogging I, too, didn’t realise how important (and awesome!) blogging friends are! 😊
Good blogging advice!